TODAY'S QUESTION: "How can you make your kid become more grateful?"

In this episode, we dive into how this viral trend aligns with the spirit of National Gratitude Month, explore the different ways to practice thankfulness, and discuss how gratitude can positively transform our emotional and physical wellbeing.

Today’s Question: "We’re seeing family for Thanksgiving who are very touchy-feely and like to kiss and hug. My child does not like this. Should I force her to say hello?"

Whether you’re first-gen or curious about the experiences of those paving the way for themselves and their families, this episode is packed with lessons in resilience, self-confidence, and going after your dreams. Join in to leave motivated to make a positive impact in your own community!

Welcome to The Consult a Counselor Series where therapist and host tackles real-life parenting-related questions, helping you find balance, reduce worry, and live mindfully with your children. Today’s Question: "How should I address my child’s lying or dishonest behavior?"

Tune in as Vanessa shares practical tips for managing stress, including the importance of micro-breaks, setting boundaries, and shifting your mindset from “I have to” to “I get to.” This episode is a reminder that we have the power to control our responses to stress and create a more fulfilling life.

Today’s Question:
"I caught my kid and his teen friends drinking. What is the best way to handle this?"

In this uplifting episode of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, host Vanessa De Jesus Guzman catches up with her college friend and breast cancer survivor, Larissa Morgan. If you’re looking for a story of strength, faith, and the power of community, this episode is for you.

TODAY’S QUESTION: How can I tell if my teen's moodiness is normal? Or if they’re depressed?

Our modern lives demand so much it's no wonder so many moms feel scattered and unfocused. If your brain feels like it’s got 50 tabs open, you’re not alone. Let’s unpack what’s going on and how you can start finding more calm and clarity in your day-to-day life.

TODAY’S QUESTION: What should I do if my child has a learning disability?

In this episode Vanessa welcomes back Naihomy Jerez, a certified integrative nutrition and hormone health coach. Join us as Naihomy shares empowering knowledge and practical tips for prioritizing well-being on the hormonal shifts that occur during perimenopause.

TODAY’S QUESTION: What should I do if my child has a learning disability?

Vanessa provides practical strategies to help moms navigate these uncomfortable situations with grace and confidence. The episode emphasizes the importance of trusting your instincts and creating a supportive environment for yourself and those around you.

TODAY’S QUESTION:
What should I do if my child is being bullied in school?

In this episode Michelle Choairy, a dedicated mother and advocate for complex children, opens up about her experiences with raising a child with a rare disorder, sharing the challenges, emotional hurdles, and inspiring triumphs she has encountered along the way.

TODAY’S QUESTION: My kid doesn't want to join any extracurricular activities and just wants to be home on the computer. What can I do to help?

In this episode, Vanessa celebrates her birthday by sharing personal reflections on how birthdays evolve as we grow older. From the excitement of gifts as a child to a deeper focus on connection and personal growth as an adult, Vanessa reflects on the shift from getting to giving.

TODAY’S QUESTION: My middle schooler wants to join so many clubs this year! Any tips?

In this episode, we're joined by Tanya Chavez - from the U.S. Air Force Academy to executive coach for top firms like Google and PayPal, Tanya's path has been anything but ordinary. Discover how her experiences in indoor skydiving have shaped her unique approach to leadership and personal growth.

Today's Question is: School has started and we're already fighting about screen time. Help!

In this episode, we're exploring how to navigate parental pressures and how to maintain internal peace in these intense environments to show up for ourselves and our children.

Today’s question is: The new school year is about to start. How can I help my child manage her anxiety?

We're thrilled to welcome you back to a brand-new season of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast! Kicking off season 6, Vanessa shares some personal updates and exciting changes to our podcast format.

To close off our season, holding the #1 spot is of our top 3 listened-to episodes of season 5 is Mario B! This episode holds weight because it shows the power of hustle and grind, building authentic relationships, and having faith in ourselves and the journey.

In this episode we discuss the power of reflection on the past, celebrating current achievements, and planning for the future. Guided questions are provided for each aspect to help the listener reach success for the upcoming year.

Join licensed therapist Vanessa De Jesus Guzman and special guest and MUA Rhina Lopez as they explore inner and outer beauty, what enlightens the soul, and the impact of a transformative journey - all with a side of glam!

Cue the confetti... In this 'season finale' episode, we celebrate and reflect on some of our podcast accomplishments and experiences, and how the guiding word I chose for the year—grace— can impact personal and professional journeys.

This episode highlights why small wins drive large impacts, by diving into the psychology of celebration, the importance of making space for our daily accomplishments, and clarity on enjoying all achievements, not just big ones.

This episode highlights mental health in kids. Discover how the developmental stages of children impact how they express and experience emotions, how caregivers and teachers can help them regulate their emotions, and tips to ensure the best therapeutic care.

Join Vanessa and Dr. Tina Onikoyi in a conversation about identifying the fear of feeling like you don't belong, highlighting the challenges that exacerbate imposter syndrome, and discovering mindful ways to break the barriers of imposter syndrome.

Join Vanessa De Jesus Guzman and Jasmine Ramirez, in a conversation that dives into hustle culture and how to navigate it with intention, budgeting, and mindfulness.

Join Vanessa De Jesus Guzman and Kathy Acosta in a conversation about how to break barriers and what we feel we are "trained" to do by connecting with others, discovering areas of growth, and exploring the business and mental health scope.

This episode shares AI tools that can help accelerate processes and highlights the evolutionary journey of AI in education. Join in a discussion on the impact of AI on society today and how to use the tools for learning without being overly reliant on technology.

Wondering how to navigate unsolicited advice like a pro? From understanding how and when to take advice to learning ways to make our own feedback more positive, this episode shows us how to apply our decision-making skills in an effective way.

This episode encourages you to embrace vulnerability and connection. By investing trust in our relationships, we invest in our personal growth, combat isolation, and embrace our potential to tackle challenges.

This episode explores where our fear comes from as well, shares a valuable framework for conquering fears, and offers key insights on leaning into fear to embrace our confidence potential.

It's okay to redirect ourselves! This episode explains our bodies' emotional and physical responses through the science of planning, a framework for coping once things don't go as planned and understanding the universe's plan.

This episode dives into the phenomenon of luck, ways to develop our motivation and hard work, and ways to build on our success and positive mindsets.

Womanhood is a testament to resilience, leadership, and inspiration—a testament to roles as leaders, mothers, and more. This episode highlights some of the celebrations and challenges of womanhood and ways to encourage nurturing our self-worth.

This episode explores the psychology behind inner intuition, the various types of intuition, and ways we can tap into our intuition to understand ourselves and the experiences/connections around us.

This episode explores ways to beat time anxiety, create value in your time, and find the importance of trusting the process. Join me as I explore personal stories and helpful tips on how to make the most out of your time.

This episode navigates the path from crisis to connection by exploring possible triggers, sharing ways to fight the epidemic of loneliness, and understanding the difference between loneliness and healthy solitude.

As this Valentine's Day rolls around, join me to spread the joy of connection by highlighting the forms of love, how we can use love as a tool for connection, and ways to rekindle love when there's conflict or distance.

This episode delves into the importance of self and social awareness, the multiple types of biases and how they might come to be, and tips to overcome biases with awareness techniques.

Mario B shares his story & experiences of how he overcame adversity that paved the way for who he is today. Join us for a conversation about culture, growth, and education, and lessons learned along the way; showing you don't have to fit in a certain box to reach your dreams.

These three steps are key to developing a change or mindset different from a traditional New Year’s Resolution, but can still help us practice what we need to do to be where we want to be. What's your word of the year?

This episode dives into ways we can become the best versions of ourselves: from learning ways to 'do the work,' shift our mindset, repurpose our goals, and more, this is for anyone looking to make 2024 their year!

In this episode we discuss the power of reflection on the past, celebrating current achievements, and planning for the future. Guided questions are provided for each aspect to help the listener reach success for the upcoming year.

This holiday season, create mini mindful moments that help replenish your energy, such as incorporating mindfulness by aligning with your senses, carving time for self-care, and expressing gratitude for your loved ones.

This episode shows the power of emotional awareness, shares ways to balance our emotions, and reflects on our range of needs. By feeling our feelings, accepting them as a strength, and validating our experiences, we can grow stronger as an individual and as a collective.

This episode explores topics that may cause triggers, ways to work through conflict, and the importance of using connection as a tool to foster better relationships. By understanding these things, we can be mindful of situations and react accordingly.

In this episode, we talk about the fluidity of modern changes, popular cultural changes in tech and entertainment, and mindfulness practices that allow us to reflect, grow, and flourish.

This episode dives into the benefits of gratitude, incorporating a gratitude practice, and ways to find grace for ourselves & others. When we connect gratitude with mindful living we become in tune with ourselves & allow ourselves to grow to our fullest potential.

This episode explores the impacts of good sleep hygiene, tips on how to improve sleep quality, and how to manage productivity and understand burn-out to stay in tune with the healthiest and happiest versions of ourselves.

In this episode, we talk about the benefits of social media, tips for using social media in a healthy way, and how to balance the online world with the IRL world.

October is Domestic Violence Awareness month, and finding ways to support anyone experiencing domestic abuse, learning ways to recognize patterns of trauma, and coming together as a collective to help each other share voices and heal goes a long way.

This episode dives into some of the symptoms of depression, encourages us to break the stigma, and offers practices and tips to create a healthy, authentic lifestyle. Whether it's finding the right support, feeling our feelings, or practicing compassion, it's time to put away the mask.

This episode walks us through Greg Rider's personal journey with ADHD, how he was able to receive help, and how the diagnosis impacted his life and career. From childhood experiences to lifestyle changes, Rider shares how he is able to live in focus with adult ADHD.

This episode shows how you can navigate bullying in adulthood by identifying forms of bullying in different environments, learning bullying prevention techniques, and practicing empathy.

Tune into this episode with Vanessa De Jesus Guzman to talk about time management, how it can help with your emotional and physical well-being and how to balance your day-to-day priorities.

This episode dives into understanding what apathy is, how to cultivate empathy, and how to balance both to stay informed and engaged without leading to burnout or overstimulation.

Join licensed therapist Vanessa De Jesus Guzman and special guest and make up artist Rhina Lopez as they explore inner and outer beauty, what enlightens the soul, and the impact of a transformative journey - all with a side of glam!

This episode explores the pursuit of passion beyond the 9-5 providing a new way of thinking about investment and more! When we trust in the process and engage in things that feed our soul, we embark on a transformative journey of growth and discovery.

This episode explores the physical, mental, and emotional benefits of retreats, and how they can lead to self-reflection, personal growth, community, new-found skills, and so much more. Looking for a break from the hustle and bustle of life? A retreat might be perfect for you!

This episode talks about how our brain responds to change, how we can set an action plan to work toward our personalized 'new beginnings,' and tips on ways to embark on the path to self-discovery.

This episode explores what self-care can look like and why it is important to implement it with a balance. By being kind to ourselves, taking the time to refuel, and giving ourselves the love we deserve, we pour into our cups and take steps toward growth.

This episode explores the significance of incorporating self-care days. Mental health discussions, mindfulness, and self-care investment are all key to our journeys. Take the time for yourself and give yourself that much-needed gratitude space, guilt-free.

This episode dives into some of the most popular questions regarding therapy, ranging from knowing when professional help may be needed, how to pick the best therapist for you, finding cost-efficient options to fit your budget, and more.

This episode explores what goals are and how we can reach them. By being intentional with creating a plan, understanding the significance of a trigger, and taking initiative in our long-term resolutions by setting bite-sized goals, we take charge of our aspirations.

This episode dives into the concept of the 7 Pillars to Mindful Love, and how these pillars can give you a better perspective of how to truly love yourself and love others by being present, kind, and open to the possibilities.

This episode explores the value of being mindful of our real talk. By understanding our intentions, remembering the impact of our words and delivery, and knowing how to communicate, we see why it's not just important what we say; but also how we say it!

This summer replay episode dives into the 'why' behind having certain expectations and how they impact our decisions or views. By removing these expectations, we can be more mindful, soak in the moment, and express gratitude for what we have and who we are.

Tune into this special season finale podcast with licensed therapist Vanessa De Jesus Guzman for a run-down of the older seasons and what's coming next. As always, all reviews and feedback is welcome!

This episode takes us on a journey of happiness. By being present and intentional with our time and actions, treating ourselves with kindness, and expressing gratitude for special people, things, and moments in life, we learn that we can cultivate happiness by mindful living.

This episode explores how letting go can lead to personal growth and the importance of looking back but moving forward. With tips on finding peace in the journey and understanding the power of mindfulness, we navigate the steps of letting go in the healing journey.

Love with pride! June is Pride Month - whether you’re a part of the community or an ally, as we celebrate, we also break barriers, learn about various human experiences throughout history, and emphasize the importance of diversity and inclusion.

This episode shares some ideas on how to take a break from the everyday hustle and bustle, ways to learn and refresh on skills picked up during the school year, tips on implementing self-care, and techniques on tuning into how we can use the summer break to our advantage.

Whether you’re new to the community or you’ve been there along the journey, this episode allows you to take a deeper look at the highs & lows, and what made the mission and vision of ‘learn, grow, and inspire’ possible.

In celebration of Mental Health Awareness month, this episode dives into the importance of breaking the mental health stigma by removing judgment, practicing kindness, and understanding our emotions.

This episode is for all of the moms who have experienced the hardships and big emotions that come along with the motherhood journey. Removing the stigma of what we "can" and "can't" feel is one of the first steps toward creating a healthier environment for all moms.

Tune into this podcast with licensed therapist Vanessa De Jesus Guzman and special guest Dr. Divina Lopez, pediatrician and founder of Dancing Into Parenthood for this real-talk conversation on autism awareness and the value of mindfulness.

This episode asks the question: Is being too busy truly a good thing? We’ll dive into possible reasons we keep our schedules packed, the importance of adding self-care to our routine, and the benefits of being flexible with ourselves and our time.

This episode explores what insecurity can look like or where it comes from, although it can be different for each person. By being mindful, understanding where the emotions are coming from, and being kind to ourselves and others, we take steps toward battling our insecurities.

This episode dives into the transformation of sibling dynamics from childhood to adulthood, tips on nurturing our sibling relationships, and learning how to use change as a positive tool for growth.

This episode highlights ways to break out of a cycle of habits or thoughts that don't serve us purpose and emphasizes the importance of reframing your mindset.

This episode explores the various forms of art, the benefits of creativity on individual and community growth, and methods to incorporate art into our lifestyles.

This episode shares tips on ways to deal with the social, emotional, and physical impacts of a career change, how to navigate the job search, and the importance of practicing gratitude with yourself.

Understanding how diversity, EQ, and mindfulness intersect and using them to empower each other creates stronger individual identities and relationships. This episode explores the experiences of first-gens, the impact of self-care, and more!

This episode shares tips on uplifting ourselves and the woman around us, challenging societal norms, and learning how to use self-care as a positive tool for growth.

This episode shares tips on using healthy communication as a tool for romance, ways to re-ignite the flame past the puppy love stage, and the importance of creating a balance and working through negative patterns.

Self-love and self-care have a wide range of benefits and are essential to building strong relationships, healing, and mindfulness. This episode focuses on physical or emotional practices to guide us on the road of self-love to the journey of self-preservation.

Today’s question is: “I don’t know how to connect with my kids. I’m barely ever with them because of my long work hours. Besides asking them how they’re doing, and checking to see how they’re doing in school, I really don’t know what to talk with them about, or to play with them."

As children we engage in endless amounts of play. This episode shares the various forms of adult play, the physical and emotional benefits of play as adults, and some ways to integrate play in our everyday lives.

Today’s question is: “My high excelling middle schooler scored in the 70s on a test so as a consequence I took the phone away, because I know “Tik Tok is life.” Now of course she hates me. Is this the right thing to do?”

Tune into this podcast with host Vanessa and special guest and educator, Vanessa Paula, for this real-talk conversation on ways to incorporate love languages as a communication tool, practice mindful living for our self-care, and a short meditation at the end.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully. Today’s question is: "How do you get a quiet/shy child to open up more? I ask my son about his day and it's crickets!"

This episode dives into ways we can show gratitude toward our loved ones, make time for the relationships in our life, and exercise flexibility for our social connections, whether they’re old or new.

Today's question is: "This middle school drama has me nuts. My daughter’s circle of friends always has some drama happening, and somehow, she’s always at the center of it. What can I do to help?"

When we set high expectations we also need to incorporate healthy boundaries and mindsets. This episode shares tips to help us create a work-life balance to manage our personal growth, find areas of improvement in a positive means, and embrace forgiveness and letting go.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully. Today’s question is: “How I wish my kid could set a new year resolution to stop whining and actually clean her room! LOL”

The New Year typically brings upon the want or need to make some changes. However, there are important things to consider before implementing any change, if we are to be successful. This episode shares tips to help us prioritize our focus for the new year, in hopes to reach our goals.

2022 is almost at its end! To celebrate an amazing year we are replaying the most played episode from 2022. Time vs Fear. Very apropos for the New Year timing!

Vanessa celebrates the 2 year anniversary of the podcast while sharing the stressors of balancing the current mental load around the holiday season. Listeners are cued in and given tips on how to manage feelings during what can be a joyous, but stressful time.

The recent passing of Stephen tWitch Boss proved difficult to comprehend for many. This episode shares honest and raw feelings on the event, and provides education on understanding suicide, the semantics we use, and how we can help loved ones.

As we approach the holidays and think of the gifts we want to purchase for our loved ones, the concept of the 5 Love Languages may help with understanding what our loved ones may actually want for the holidays or special occasions.

Today’s question is: “With the holidays right around the corner I’m thinking about getting my kid a cell phone. What age is the right age?”

As we shop for the holidays we come across various employees & service providers. How far do we believe in the statement “The customer is always right?” This episode explores the concepts of providing good customer service & being a good customer.

Today’s question is: “You’d think my kid would behave around the holidays. I threaten him with the elf and Santa, but he is still throwing intense temper tantrums. Help!” Disclaimer: Adult ears only.

While it is believed we all exude joy during the holiday season, the reality is we may experience many holiday pressures. This episode gives you permission to prioritize yourself, while providing tips to protect your mental health during the holiday season.

On this Thanksgiving Day I would like to thank you for your support on the various projects I lead. I appreciate your trust throughout it all. Wishing you and your family and very Happy Thanksgiving!

Having a gratitude practice has various scientifically proven benefits. This episode shares those benefits, how we can all benefit from having a daily gratitude practice, in addition to naming 100 everyday things we can be grateful for today.

Today’s question is: “Thanksgiving is coming up and my kid is the pickiest eater. How do I get my kid to eat so that I won’t be judged by my extended family?”

When living great experiences two things typically happen - we get upset when the experiences have passed or we are left wanting more. In this episode learn how reframing thoughts can bring more joy and peace into our lives.

Today’s question is: “It’s the end of the marking period and my kid did terribly. I’m so mad but nothing seems to get through to him!”

In this episode Vanessa reflects on what we’re doing with the time we do have along with 5 tips to make the most of our time.

Today’s question is: “My kid forgets everything at home - homework, glasses, instruments, sneakers for PE - everything! How do I teach him responsibility?”

When we don’t get what we want, how do we react? And how does that impact others? These are the topics discussed in this week’s episode, along with tips to help with being patient and how to have a positive attitude while we’re waiting.

Today’s question is: “My kid has special needs and holidays like Halloween are tough for him. What can I do to help others understand our struggles?”

We don’t just treat others the way we want to be treated, we actually TEACH others the way we want to be treated. In this episode Vanessa shares tips to help your working, romantic, familial and parent-child relationships.

Today’s question is: “How do you give your children, specifically your middle schooler, more independence as they grow up, while still making sure that you have the reins?”

In this week’s episode, guest Lisa Dominguez share nuggets of how you can incorporate mindfulness into your everyday life. We can always find time for little moments for ourselves to be the best version of ourselves to those we serve.

My middle schooler is already talking about group costumes for Halloween and it's driving me nuts. So much unnecessary drama! Help!

This week’s episode is all about how to overcome this “Pinterest Perfect Parent” syndrome. How to heal from the comparison game of other parents, and steps to ensure you’re focusing on what matters most of all; the moments.

Today’s question is: “How do I teach my child kindness and inclusivity - including everyone and not leaving anyone out?”

In this episode, I will share with you some different practices and techniques to help you familiarize yourself with how to implement self-respect into your everyday life.

Today’s question is: “Kids are in school one month and I'm not liking my kid's teacher. They don't give enough homework. So different from my older child's teacher. What should I do?”

In this episode, I will share with you a few personal achievements I have had recently, how I am making mindful reflection on them, and how you can implement the same kind of thinking into your life as well.

Today’s question is: “I'm a stay at home mom. I thought I was going to be thrilled when my kids went to school, but I just miss them. What should I do?”

Vanessa invites Food & Health Coach Naihomy Jerez to discuss our relationship with food, how that is impacted by culture, and how we can positively impact our kids’ relationship with their food, along how mindfulness and food intersect.

Today’s question is: “My partner is Latino and I am not. He wants to speak Spanish to our kids at home, but it leaves me out. And they learn Spanish in school anyway. What should I do?”

Sometimes it takes tragic events or a loss of a loved one to remind us what is truly important in life. This episode provides tips on how we can take small steps to value life as it’s happening in the right here, right now.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully. Today’s question is: “What can I ask on the Consult a Counselor Series?”

Welcome to season 4 of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast! Vanessa shares about herself, the podcast, and what drives her motivation in all she does. She also shares how this time of the year ties into yearly goals.

In this episode Vanessa reflects on summer while bringing season 3 of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast to an end. The progress and growth of the podcast are shared, including changes for season 4!

Did you know there are defined stages of development that describe important concepts we learn in each stage? This episode shares these stages, the concepts we should be obtaining in each stage, and what they have to do with mindfulness.

This episode shares three crucial tips that could make or break how successful this year is for your household. The major insight is how beneficial these tips are for YOU - more than for your kid.

August 8th is known as “Happiness Happens Day.” My question to you is, does happiness “just happen” Also, is it when it doesn’t happen, how do you mindfully manage intense feelings?

This episode shares mindful vacation tips for traveling with children and the benefits for traveling without children, while also discussing privilege and importance of connection.

July 24th is National Parents Day. Parenting is the hardest job in the world and doesn’t come with a manual. Our parenting styles have an impact on how secure our kids grow up to be. Tune in to learn more!

This episode discusses the intersectionality and potential alignment between our careers, passions and hobbies. Vanessa reflects on the idea of hobbies outside of work and how much we engage in things that bring us joy.

Many of us take vacations in the summer, and sometimes by the time we get back, we may feel as though we need a vacation from the vacation. In this episode we discuss the importance of and strategies on how to learn to rest.

This episode focuses on the importance of celebrating each step of life, of feeling fulfilled in our career choices, and of reflecting on the goals we have for our kids and for ourselves.

In this episode Vanessa shares a personal story about her recent first 5K experience, pushing herself outside of her comfort zone, and overcoming many challenges that took place on that day, through the power of mindfulness.

Adults often teach kids to consider their wants and needs, but there are times where we place more emphasis on one over the other, pending on our motives, priorities, budget and more. How do we do better?

Ever feel as though you are expected to play the part of a main character in a book or movie? Sometimes we play parts, especially during big life transitions, instead of being our most authentic selves.

Today’s question is: “It’s been a week and my kids are still feeling the aftermath of the Texas tragedy. They’re super scared to go to school. What can I do?"

In this episode Vanessa discusses the importance of creating the space and time to enjoy our families and our lives in the present moment instead of waiting until we run out of time and it’s too late.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully. Today’s question is: “How on earth do I talk to my kids about all of these tragedies happening.”

Free to Be Mindful turns 3! In this episode Vanessa shares Free to Be Mindful’s journey - the ups and the downs - in addition to providing motivation to achieving goals.

Today’s question is: “There is this kid who has made my daughter’s life absolutely impossible this year. I’m part of the same parent group, which makes it tough, but I don’t want my kid in classes with her next year. What can I do?”

This episode challenges mothers and caregivers to be selfish with their time, put themselves first, and create support networks to help keep a healthy balance within motherhood.

“My son is an only child and is awful at communicating. He doesn’t make eye contact with others, he doesn’t know how to initiate play or conversation with other kids, and just doesn’t know how to socialize. What can I do to help?”

April is Stress Awareness Month and Counseling Awareness Month - ironic, isn’t it! How do we know when our experienced stress needs professional help? And how do we go about seeking therapy? This episode answers those questions and more.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast. Today’s question is: “Recently I was criticized about my child being in a lot of activities. How much is too much?”

Ever notice how when we’re stressed and overwhelmed our kids begin to act up too? What can we do when there is a lot on our plate? Listen in and watch your kids’ behavior change.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast. Today’s question is: “Lately I’ve been super triggered by my kids. I’m annoyed by everything they do. How can I help them stop bothering me?”

Time is our most nonrenewable resource. What are you doing with the time you have? This episode has listeners reflect on how precious time is, think of the road blocks that may be in the way, and make plans to achieve set goals.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully. Today’s question is: “My child says things like, ‘I’m so stupid.' How can I help her see how awesome she is?"

March 8, 2022 celebrates International Women’s Day. This is must-hear for all women, especially mothers, to obtain gentle reminders challenging them to let go of things that no longer serve them, to be the best woman for themselves.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully. Today’s question is: “How can I prepare my kid as the mask mandates are lifted in schools?”

Disney’s Encanto has stolen our hearts with its beautiful story on the Latinx Madrigal family. This episode reviews the movie’s characters and themes, as they are seen through the eyes of a Latina therapist.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast. Today’s question is: “I flipped out with my kid. Like really flipped out. I lost my cool. Yelled at the top of my lungs. Cursed and sent him to bed. How can I fix my wrong?”

This episode shares Vanessa’s 7 pillars on how to love mindfully, in addition to experiencing self love and showing up for ourselves. Understanding and experiencing these pillars help us in all relationships, including the one we hold with ourselves.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast. Today’s question is: “My young child stated they want to kill themselves. I’m in complete shock. But how do I know it’s serious and not just a play on words?”

Recognizing potential versus needs are two very different stories. This week’s podcast discusses high expectations of kids, others and self. Join in for this real-talk conversation on personal growth, mindful living, and a short meditation at the end.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast. Today’s question: “My husband told my kid he sucks at soccer. I know that soccer isn’t the sport for him. But I don’t want to tell my kid he sucks at something. Please help.”

On this MLK weekend, Vanessa shares having race discussions with kids, centered on understanding privilege and use of language. Join in for this real-talk conversation on personal growth, mindful living, and a short meditation at the end.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast. Today’s Question: “It's like my kid thinks it's still Christmas. He's still asking me for all types of toys and I’m tired of fighting. How can I help him understand?”

In this episode host Vanessa shares two strategies that serve as visual triggers and reminders to help you reach your personal & professional goals this year. Join in for this real-talk conversation on personal growth, mindful living, and a short meditation.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully. Today’s question: “The elf is gone and now my kids’ behavior is back to their old ways. Help!”

In this first episode of season 3, host Vanessa De Jesus Guzman gets more personal and candid as she shares personal updates, as well as podcast updates. Join in for this real-talk conversation on personal growth, mindful living, and a short meditation at the end.

December 17th marks the Podcast One Year Anniversary! Vanessa is filled with gratitude for each and every listener. It is our hope that you have listened in on new ideas and reminders on how you can be more aware, more present and more mindful in life.

This week we have the third and final part of the interview which originally aired on the Sassy Says Podcast, where host Christie interviewed Vanessa on all things mindfulness, therapy, and parenting.

Today’s Question: “In a season where my kids receive so many toys, how can I teach them to be more empathetic or filled with more gratitude?”

So sometime in the summer I connected with Christie Rocha from the Sassy Says Podcast. We had a super juicy conversation on all things mindfulness and therapy in regards to kids and to moms. Part 2 goes into my journey to becoming a therapist.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully. Today’s Q: “I don’t want to give into the social pressure of the Elf on the Shelf. What should I do?”

On the Sassy Says Podcast we discussed integrating mindfulness in parenting and in your everyday life. Join part one of the conversation to here how to integrate mindfulness in your own life and in the lives of children, as I share of my own experience.

Host Vanessa De Jesus Guzman shares how she is living with intention in presence and gratitude, and how you can too. Join in for this real-talk conversation on mindful living, mental health and personal growth, with a short meditation.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully. Today’s question: “My kid has so many toys. I don’t know what to do. HELP!”

Continuing the conversation of authenticity, we explore the concept of honesty, how we filter our thoughts when speaking to others, and how we receive others’ comments toward us.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully. Today’s question: “Why don’t people understand my special needs kid on Halloween?”

Many around the world participate in Halloween. I wonder, do we wear masks on days other than Halloween? This episode discusses what it means to become our most authentic selves, and provides strategies on how to stay true to ourselves.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully. Today’s question: “My child is getting bullied. What should I do?”

As parents we want to protect our kids from all types of emotional pain. But when we do that, we don't allow our kids to make mistakes with our support. This episode provides you with tips and phrases to help kids be independent thinkers.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully. Today’s Question: “What do I say to my first grader who is left to sit all alone at the lunch table?”

Mindfulness isn’t just about slowing down and stilling the mind. It’s about getting to know yourself on a deeper and more personal level. The more you take the time to see life positively, the more positive things you’ll find to celebrate.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully. Today’s question: “My child needs help. Should I speak to his school counselor or get a therapist?”

Society tends to overschedule kids with extracurricular activities. While this has great benefits, it’s important to remember space to play and just be. On the other hand, as adults we tend to forget the importance of participating in things that bring us joy.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully. Today’s question: “My kid does not like his teacher at all. Should I ask for a change in teachers?”

The lack of confidence can hold us back from doing hard things and overcoming our fears. This episode of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast discusses how mindset, body awareness, and preparation contributes to boosting confidence to reach our goals.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully. Today’s question: “My kid tells me they’re anxious. How do I know if it’s for real?”

We all contribute to the functioning of our communities in some way. This episode explores how we can have a positive work life balance while feeling valuable, to not only set a good example for our kids, but to also engage in forms of self care.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully. Today’s question: “How do I help my kid succeed going back to school?”

Throughout our lives we experience many “scary” moments of life, but we also conquer them as well! This episode of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast shares tips on how to manage and conquer our daily fears.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully. Today’s Question: “My kid does not want to go back to school. Help!”

August 15th is National Relaxation Day. While it seems silly to have a day to celebrate, it seems we could all increase our knowledge base of how to relax. This episode provides ideas on how to enhance our relaxation time.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully. Today’s question: “How on earth do I limit my kid’s screen time?”

National Happiness Happens Day is August 8th. It encourages people to celebrate their expression of happiness. This episode of the Free to Be Mindful podcast provides factors that boost happiness and tips to foster joy.

The “Consult a Counselor Series” is a segment of the Free to Be Mindful podcast, which answers parenting related questions to help caregivers live life mindfully. Today’s Question: “My kid wants to be a YouTuber. What do I tell them?”

Host Vanessa De Jesus Guzman welcomes you to Season 2 of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast. Discussing American Family Day - celebrated on August 1, 2021 - Vanessa provides family bonding tips for families.

Ending Season 1 host Vanessa reflects on gratitude for our freedoms and the ability to implement moments of self-care during the summer. Vanessa also shares an upcoming Virtual Retreat hosted by the movement Mindfulness with People of Color.

This episode, being released on Father’s Day, celebrates fathers and provides tips necessary for all parents and caregivers, but especially for fathers.

When we accomplish our goals, do we take the time to celebrate, or do we continue to set the bar higher? This episode discusses the moments of work and play as we review the goals we may have set at the start of the year.

Everyday we make many decisions - some trivial, some more life-changing. For those bigger decisions, we benefit from some courage - which is sometimes scary! What helps with making these big decisions…. why, mindfulness of course!

Vanessa celebrates Free to Be Mindful’s 2nd birthday, how her business got its name, the importance of mindfulness, along with 5 tips on how we can bring mindfulness into our lives to live with more intentionality.

Through the experience of being a teacher and school counselor, the importance of mental health in children is known firsthand. Hear the story that catapulted Vanessa from education into mental health.

As we celebrate motherhood, this episode shares three tips to remind all mothers and caregivers to put themselves first.

Education has definitely been challenged in this past year and a half. Teachers and educators have definitely shifted the way they teach and reach students. But does that mean their students haven’t learned the same?

A person’s confidence can impact so many areas of life. This podcast includes 5 tips to boost confidence - beneficial for both children and adults.

So many kids (and adults!) struggle with perfectionism. As parents and educators we have to delicately balance pushing our kids to do their best, but not so much that they (or we) lose sight of what is truly important in life.

Although there are many variables to birth orders, our personalities and birth order are connected. This provides insight to understanding the dynamics families and provides valuable information on how we respond to the kids in our lives.

The holiday and spring bring on an aspect of renewal. This episode shares thoughts of quarter two of the year with messages to refresh on life, goals and mindset.

We want the best for our kids and students. After pouring our whole selves into them, we must learn to trust ourselves and our efforts, to then trust them to make the best choices for their own lives.

We want the best for our kids and students. After pouring our whole selves into them, we must learn to trust ourselves and our efforts, to then trust them to make the best choices for their own lives.

During times of stress and overwhelm, we sometimes get so caught up that we focus on the past or fear of the unknown future, that we forget to make the best of the present moment.

Asking for help allows us to potentially do more and to implement self-care. However, there seem to be many barriers to asking and receiving help.

Asking for help allows us to potentially do more and to implement self-care. However, there seem to be many barriers to asking and receiving help.

Perfection… it gives us the push for intrinsic motivation, but it can also cause unnecessary anxiety. How do you make it work for you?

Before we can give love onto others, we must take moments to love ourselves. This episode gives you a different take on self-love and positive affirmations.

When was the last time you took some time to play? Play has tons of benefits for children and adults alike. This episode shares tips on benefits of play and how to play with kids.

TODAY’S QUESTION:

What should I do if my child is being bullied in school?

How do we manage slowly integrating back into society during the pandemic? Having grace and compassion offers us many answers. This episode covers how we can show ourselves and others more of this.

Having tough talks with our kids can sometimes be a challenge. This podcast shares 5 easy tips parents and educators can keep in mind when broaching sensitive topics, such as those in current events.

Understanding Self-Awareness is a big component of Social-Emotional Learning and Emotional Intelligence. There are various facets of self-awareness, including the privilege we consciously and subconsciously carry.

What really fills your soul? It is the your every day to-do list? Or is it when you are just BEING and taking life in? This episode makes a connection between Disney’s new movie SOUL and the importance of Mindful Living.

Many make high plans for the New Year. Pending on our thoughts and actions behind these plans, they can be considered resolutions, goals, or merely just a wish.

Many of us have high expectations of ourselves and sometimes of each other. When we take a moment to reflect on “the why” of these expectations we can find answers to help us as we look forward.

Educator, Licensed Professional Counselor, Mindfulness Instructor, Entrepreneur and Mom welcomes you to the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, perfect for parents and educators to learn, grow and inspire with mindfulness in mind.

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